Getting Married

We congratulate you on your engagement and we wish you calm and happiness over this time of planning for your most special day.

We believe that Marriage is a sacrament, with the love of the husband and wife mirroring the love that God has for us, his people. We pray that God will journey with you as you make this important commitment. 

Some things to attend to:

• At least three months notice to the Church (Contact the Parish Office)
• At least three months notice to the State's Civil Registrar - CLICK HERE for more information
• Attend a Pre-Marriage Preparation Course  -  Book well in advance due to limited availability
  
   CLICK HERE for Details of Upcoming Pre Marriage Courses 

• Complete Pre-Marriage Papers in the parish where each of you are living (2-3 months in advance)
• Prepare the Wedding Mass/Service with Music, readings, prayers, flowers etc. Talk to the priest officiating at your wedding for ideas on these. There is a very helpful website that will go through all the aspects of your marriage and wedding preparation.
  
  CLICK HERE for help with preparing your wedding
  
  CLICK HERE for Music Guidelines for your Wedding Mass Celebration 

If the priest officiating at your wedding is not a priest of the Diocese of Kerry, he will have to complete a form to be submitted to the Diocesan Offices 2-3 months before the date of the wedding.

CLICK HERE to download this form